Often clients with ADHD will tell me they feel stuck in a dead-end career, a frustrating yet all-too-common experience, particularly when motivation to change paths is lacking, and options feel limited.
While this scenario often leads to a sense of "settling," it doesn’t have to mean stagnation.
By leveraging personal growth and ambition in personal areas, it's possible to not only develop a sense of purpose but also find ways to indirectly revitalize your career outlook.
This framework adopts a top-down approach to reclaiming agency, starting with clarifying core values and personal goals before linking those aspirations back to the workplace. It emphasises small, actionable steps that align with individual interests, create momentum, and connect personal satisfaction with professional resilience.
The process begins with understanding your fundamental values and passions, defining a compelling personal goal, and structuring that goal into milestones and microtasks. Along the way, the strategy includes building a support network, fostering accountability, and ensuring that progress remains adaptable through regular reflection.
Ultimately, by reframing the current job as a stepping stone or enabler for personal success, this plan empowers you to transform dissatisfaction into a platform for growth.
Step 1: Clarify Core Values and Interests
- Why it matters: Aligning goals with what fundamentally matters to the individual ensures that the plan is intrinsically motivating.
- Action:
- Dedicate time to reflect on personal values, passions, and interests unrelated to work.
- Ask questions like:
- What do I genuinely enjoy doing?
- What makes me feel accomplished?
- What would I regret not pursuing?
Step 2: Define a Personal Goal with Impact
- Why it matters: Personal goals give structure to non-work time, making the job a means to an end rather than the focus of dissatisfaction.
- Action:
- Identify one or two achievable personal goals. Examples:
- Learning a skill (e.g., cooking, coding, art, etc.).
- Building a meaningful project (e.g., writing a book, creating a community garden).
- Improving a specific aspect of life (e.g., fitness, organization).
- Ensure the goal is specific, measurable, and inspiring.
- Identify one or two achievable personal goals. Examples:
Step 3: Break the Goal into Milestones
- Why it matters: Executive dysfunction often makes long-term goals feel overwhelming.
- Action:
- Write down the goal and divide it into 3–5 major milestones.
- For example, if the goal is to write a book:
- Brainstorm ideas.
- Outline chapters.
- Write the first draft.
- Revise and edit.
- Research publishing options.
- For example, if the goal is to write a book:
- Make each milestone manageable and achievable within a realistic timeframe.
- Write down the goal and divide it into 3–5 major milestones.
Step 4: Implement Daily Microtasks
- Why it matters: Motivation is built through small, consistent wins that create momentum.
- Action:
- Identify 1–3 microtasks to work on daily or weekly.
- For example:
- Spend 15 minutes drafting ideas.
- Watch one tutorial video.
- Practice the skill for 20 minutes.
- For example:
- Use a planner or app to track progress and check off tasks to build a success spiral.
- Identify 1–3 microtasks to work on daily or weekly.
Step 5: Link Work to the Personal Goal
- Why it matters: Connecting work to personal ambitions reframes the mundane job as a supportive tool.
- Action:
- Define how the current job enables progress:
- It pays for resources (e.g., materials, classes, books).
- It provides stability to focus on personal pursuits.
- Create a motivational reminder (e.g., a sticky note or phone wallpaper) that connects work with the personal goal.
- Define how the current job enables progress:
Step 6: Build a Support System
- Why it matters: ADHD brains thrive on accountability and social connection.
- Action:
- Share the goal with a trusted friend, coach, or group.
- Schedule periodic check-ins to review milestones and celebrate progress.
- Join a community related to the goal for shared enthusiasm.
Step 7: Reflect and Iterate
- Why it matters: Regular reflection maintains motivation and adapts the plan to changing circumstances or interests.
- Action:
- Set aside time monthly to assess:
- What’s working and what’s not?
- Do the milestones still feel achievable?
- Is the goal still meaningful?
- Adjust tasks or timelines as needed without guilt.
- Set aside time monthly to assess:
Example in Practice
Goal: Create a small community art project.
- Milestones: Learn basic painting, find a venue, design the project, recruit participants, launch the event.
- Microtasks: Sketch for 10 minutes daily, attend one art class monthly.
- Link to work: Use income to fund materials and classes.
- Support System: Share progress with a friend who enjoys art.
This approach offers a practical and empowering way to navigate the sense of being "stuck," especially for individuals with ADHD who may feel overwhelmed by the weight of change.
By beginning with a clear understanding of core values and interests, it grounds the process in intrinsic motivation—a critical factor for sustained engagement. Breaking down goals into manageable milestones and microtasks creates opportunities for consistent wins, while linking personal ambitions to work reframes the job as a means to a greater end, rather than a source of frustration.
For clients with ADHD, this strategy leverages strengths like creativity, passion, and adaptability, while providing the structure and accountability needed to overcome executive dysfunction.
The inclusion of a support system ensures that progress is buoyed by encouragement and shared enthusiasm, keeping momentum alive even during challenging periods.
Ultimately, this framework doesn’t just address dissatisfaction—it transforms it into an opportunity for growth.
By building a bridge between personal fulfillment and professional stability, individuals can reclaim a sense of agency, develop meaningful goals, and move forward with clarity and confidence. The process may start with "settling," but it ends with thriving.